The Ultimate Law Of Attraction: Psychokinesis (Or Telekinesis)
The law of attraction is often taught in ways to create abundance for our lives, that whatever we desired, as long as we can be a vibrational match for it, it would come automatically. In a nutshell, what's alike draws to each other is what law of attraction is all about. Many have successfully created abundance of wealth, health, relationships, and all sort of pleasures for their lives as they master such simple yet fundamental law of life. But would you dare to take it up a notch?
What if, law of attraction is not just a tool to create abundance for our lives? What if it stretches far beyond what is perceived and understood by the general populace right now? What if, one of its unique use, would that you are able to perform telekinetic acts and move objects around with your thoughts alone?
Now this is going to sound crazy a little bit, but do bear with me as I explore the possibility with the help of some scientific theories...
What is Quantum Entanglement?
In quantum physics, there is this concept called quantum entanglement. Basically, the quantum entanglement theory is that, particles vibrating in deep coherence would create some kind of deep connection linking them together.
In Michio Kaku's Physics of the Impossible book, there is this example that would help you understand the term quantum entanglement better:
If two electrons are initially vibrating in unison (a state called coherence) they can remain in wavelike synchronization even if they are separated by a large distance. Although the two electrons may be separated by light-years, there is still an invisible Schrodinger wave connecting both of them, like am umbilical cord. If something happens to one electron, then some of that information is immediately transferred to the other electron (in a speed faster than the speed of light).
Now in his book, this concept was mentioned under the chapter Teleportation. Basically, if you are to introduce 3 atoms in an experiment, with atom A and B being entangled initially. Then an atom C is put in contact with atom A. Atom C would then scan atom A, becomes entangled and transfers its information to atom A. Atom B being already entangled with atom A, would automatically receive the new information and becomes identical to atom C. Hence a "teleportation" could happen by utilizing on this concept, albeit that atom C did not actually move.
But if you are still with me, this is not an article dealing with teleportation.
How Quantum Entanglement could be the basis of the Law of Attraction?
The pre-requisite of the invisible Schrodinger wave that connects both objects invisibly regardless of distance, is that they have to vibrate in unison. In other words, as long as they offer the exact same vibration, a quantum entanglement could be formed. If there is an object that we would like to connect to, then as long as we can offer the exact vibration, theoretically speaking, the connection would be formed as well.
Scientifically speaking, it would be very difficult to know the exact vibration of an object, what's more to mimic its vibration in order to form a Schrodinger connection. But spiritually speaking, things may be different.
Through practices of deep meditation, it may be possible for one to not only feel the vibration of an object, but to remember it as well in the form of a feeling. Think of all the times in your dreams that you have dreamed about somebody even when they are not actually there, you were recalling their vibrations and how they felt to you. We as human is an amazing creation as while we have our physical vibration that forms our physical appearance, we are also able to offer vastly different vibration through our mind. Now if one is able to master the techniques of meditation (or other techniques) to feel and remember the vibrations of the object to control, and subsequently regenerate it in the back of his mind, he would hypothetically be able to create an quantum entanglement between the object and his mind. Once the connection is formed, would it be possible for him to move it around purely via thoughts alone, ie via psychokinesis?
A little lost?
Now you may be wondering, heck what does law of attraction has to do with all of these? To bring you back to what was said initially, what's alike draws to each other. Perhaps the object we desired to manipulate wouldn't fly across the room and hit our head in a very literal attraction sense, but invisibly, the Schrodinger wave would be creeping out from the object and our mind, drawing to each other and creating the bridge for quantum entanglement if we are able to offer identical vibrations. And this would be the same as attracting wealth, health, relationships, or any other abundance and still fit the description of law of attraction perfectly isn't it?
Perhaps this is actually what's happening each time we offer thoughts that are a vibrational match for our desires. We emit out all these Schrodinger wave and forms all sort of quantum entanglement with our desired outcomes, and quietly pull them over into our life. When you have mastered the law of attraction, when you have mastered the generation of vibrations for things you desired, would you be able through conscious efforts, to become a vibrational match for a specific object, creating the quantum entanglement connection, and manipulate it at will?
I say it is possible!
Disclaimer: My understanding of Quantum Entanglement theory is extremely limited.
Inception: It Is Possible In Reality
I am always thrilled to watch a movie with concepts and ideas that mess up my mind, and Inception is such a movie. Much like Matrix and many other movies, it shakes your paradigm about the world a little bit right after watching it, and makes you wonder if whatever potrayed in the movie is in fact... possible. The thing with Inception is that... yes it is.
I will be going into the movie Inception a little bit so please stop reading right now if you do not want to be spoiled about the movie.
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Inception talks about 3 very interesting concepts. First, you can control your dream. Second, it is possible to share your dreams. Third, it is possible to be stuck in your dream. Now let us explore these 3 concepts and how they are possible...
You can control your dream
The fact that you can control your dream, is possibly not new to many. You may have heard of the term lucid dreaming, which basically deals with controlling how your dreams turn out to be. Very much like in Inception really, where the characters are free to twist things around to their likings and just do whatever they want like they are the God literally.
In fact, the ability to control your own dreams are so natural to some people that they thought everyone else could do it. I surely can't. There are many guides are there that I can follow and train up the ability I suppose. Fascinating thing to be able to do anything in your dreams, just have not quite find the urge to pick up the skill yet.
Still I wonder how does it feel like to be fully in control of your dream. To be a superhero, to be everything you want to be, would you want to wake up?
In Inception, Robert lived in his dream with his wife for decades, to the point that when they come back from the dream world, the reality seems like the dream world instead. What would you do if you get to live in a world without a worry for hunger, for money, for anything that you don't want to be, and just lay back and have fun? Would you ever think of leaving? I might not.
You can share your dreams
Well this may seem a little far fetched but there are people out there who have claimed that they have done that. If you consider it from a purely physical perspective, it would be hard to understand. Not so if you switch your perspective around and look it through a spiritual point of view.
You see, sleeping is not just about shutting down your mind, and resting both your mind and your body. Spiritually, it goes beyond that. It is said that, when you are asleep, your soul goes back to where it comes from to recharge. You may call where it comes from the Heaven, God, the Source, or simply, the Well-being, and it would all be referring to the same thing. Your soul goes back into the spiritual world to stock up on its wellbeing (or energy), so that it would come back feeling all refreshed and ready to take on the world again the next morning!
In fact this is possibly why sleeping is a very good cure to minor depression, where one would wake up feeling more hopeful again despite doing absolutely nothing through their dreams. And that's why humans cannot survive through a prolonged period of sleep deprivation, whereas we could survive for weeks without food.
Imagine, when you are asleep, your soul is somewhere else recharging. For most people, there will be an exclusive express lane between our bodies and our spiritual "power socket". Sometimes, one may decide to take a detour and it would turn into Astral Projection, where it is possible to meet other souls, the ones that belong to other human beings, or the ones that don't. It is my understanding that it is possible to meet up and share your dreams that way, because in Astral Plane, whatever you think of, manifest right away, much like in our dream land.
Theoretically, it should be possible to create some sort of boundaries, which includes not one (yourself), but two or more people, and all of you can co-create in the astral plane. If you think of your spiritual express lane to recharge your wellbeing as some sort of boundary created naturally by ourselves, it should be possible to consciously mend this boundary to allow the others to come in. Some like to disarm the boundary altogether and just tour around the astral world freely meeting other kind souls or some very nasty ones. The boundary is really like a natural protection mechanism to stop us from meeting really really evil things out there.
It is possible to be stuck in your dream
It is said that in truth, there is no hell. There is only heaven, the place where we came from, where we will go back upon death. Just like darkness is not the opposite of light, but merely the lack of light, hell is not the opposite of heaven, just the lack of heaven. Our mind is stuffed with all kind of weird ideas about hell, like how it's always burning, how people are tortured so badly that it would have been better for them to just die spiritually, if that's even possible.
The thing is, hell is not all that at all. Hell is a self-created problem during people's death, that based on all the events that have happened in their life, they assumed that they will be judged and damned by God, undeserving of unconditional love. So then they become too afraid to cross over, and stuck living with their guilts and fears, as well as all the mistakes that they have made in their life. I guess you can foresee that, for a soul to be living in their guilts and dears indefinitely, it wouldn't turn out too well. With such low vibration, they would be creating and attracting all sort of wrong things to themselves. Possibly the reason why you hardly meet a very happy spirit that refuse to cross over.
And if you ever end up like this, it would not be too different from being stuck in your dream. There is just no way out until you realize that everything is self-created. If you have ever try counseling a very depressed person, you will know that it's the last thing that they want to know... That everything that they are going through is self-inflicted.
It is only very recently, that I realize the connection between "there is no hell", to what that is said in the bible. The bible would tell you that, if you do not believe in God, you are doomed to hell. In a way that is true because if you do not believe in God or heaven (that it is a place supposedly full of love, happiness, and wellbeing), you may be too afraid to make that leap of faith to cross over from this physical world into the "other side" fearing that you may not be good enough for the "other side", resulting you being stuck in your own hell, and infinite loop of all your guilts and fears.
Anyway...
I am not really sure if anybody understands anything written in this article because they could be so weird... Feel free to do a Google search on things and find out more. :) I may have gotten something wrong here but the gist is there.
How To Determine If You Will Be Successful? Know Thyself
The thing with ambitious people is that, it is very easy to fall prey to your own ambitions and become delusional. It is important to recognize that, having big dreams that no one else dare to think of, is only the first step. You may have all the faith in the world that you are going to succeed eventually, but are you? Hence, it is important to be aware of your circumstances, to know how likely that you are going to succeed, and if there is anything you can do right now at this moment to add onto the probability.
You see, being successful is by definition about being better than the other people. How successful you are, depends on how much better you are compared to the rest of the population. I don't mean it in a superior/inferior way, but more of... what can you do, are able to do, that the other people can't? In other words, is there any unique contribution that you can provide to the world that the others cannot? The more unique and important your contributions are, the more valuable and successful you will become!
Let's compare a few hypothetical examples. Consider a few persons below:
- A commerce graduate from a local university who can speak only okay English.
- A commerce graduate from a local university with good results, who can speak only okay English.
- A commerce graduate from a local university who can speak fluent English.
I bet you will have no problem point out that, person 2 and 3 would have better chance to succeed than person 1 right? In fact in Malaysia, where so many of the people can't speak fluent English, the ability to converse fluently and confidently in English is a quality that really stands out and sought after. And I would personally say that person 3 would be more successful than person 2 if the circumstances don't change.
Now let's move a level up and compare these examples:
- A commerce graduate from a local university who can speak fluent English.
- An engineering graduate from a local university who can speak fluent English.
- An medicine graduate from an overseas university who can speak fluent English.
Do you have a problem in identifying who is more likely to succeed in the future? I mean assuming that the commerce degree is not a professional degree like accounting or finance, it would pale in comparison with a professional degree like engineering because while engineering people can take up commerce easily and replace them, it is not as easy for the commerce people to do it the other way around. Then there is the even more specialized degree of medicine.
Of course, to compare things like that are over-simplifying and would hardly be accurate. But let me just make my points first.
Assuming that you are this commerce graduate from a local university, who can speak only okay English, and you meet all these overseas engineering/doctor/pharmacy graduates who can speak fluent English confidently, it is easy to realize that if you want to be more successful than them, then you better have qualities that they don't have to get ahead!
You can begin by taking up an English course and really brush up your language skills. Now you may be equal to them in terms of English, but how about their professional background? Good news is, you don't have to match their everything. This world is abundant enough for you to be unique and be successful in your own ways. You can perhaps, build strong connections and networks. Study and master inter-personal skills (something professionals, especially the technical people often lack in), or other expertise that will help you with your career.
Since the possibilities are unlimited, I will leave the details to you. But the important point to note is that... If you are one of the very ambitious people, it is vital to not be delusional and always review your own probability to succeed. We all have to start somewhere. After graduating from university (or even, without graduating from university) you may find yourself ahead or behind the rest of the society. It is not important where you are at right now, but where you are heading.
A lot of the young sales people I see in Malaysia (and boy these are the people who are highly ambitious but also easily delusional) keep looking for the next great product or networking business opportunities to join and to make it big. They want to be in the top tier of the society, they want to drive BMWs and Mercedez just like their boss. But what they don't realize is that, that's almost like praying for their fortunes to fall from the sky. Yes there are some very successful salesmen and they earn a hell lot. But do these fresh graduate salesmen have the same qualities to succeed like them?
I admit that some do. Their enthusiasm and determination are unbreakable. Others however, are arrogant, can't speak proper English, untactful, pissy, dishonest, and they think that being like that would get them ahead? No way! Those are not unique and important contributions. Those contributions are easily replaceable by other idiots of the society. In fact, the internet is steadily replacing all the needs for a salesman, as witnessed in more developed countries like Australia. So you can say that the contributions of salesmen are really, replaceable.
When an ordinary sales person develops and improves on his skills, he transcends and becomes a business development executive, an online marketer guru etc... His skills and contributions would be unique and hard to be replaced. He will become highly valuable and sought after. Guess what comes after that? Success.
The reason why it is a common phenomenon to specialize in the world currently is that, having specialized knowledge is a shortcut to allow people to be unique and irreplaceable. Then, success has to come when they are highly sought after. :) You may not want to specialize for any reason and that's okay. You just need to realize that, having big dreams doesn't automatically get you ahead the rest of the people. You need to match it with good attitude, good mindset, good skillset, and any other things that would set you apart from the others. If you don't have them yet, start working on it. :)
How To Put On Weight For The Skinny People #2: What Not To Do
This is the follow-up from my first article How To Put On Weight For The Skinny People #1: Fix Your Daily Routines. Personally I feel that it's not in a very refined state to be published, but with my busy schedule, I am afraid that it would never get published if I wait till I have time to work on finalizing the article.
So here it is... I hope that the information would help any skinny people reading on tips to gain more weight. :)
Don't drink coffee/tea
I am sure that you have heard all about coffee being bad and harmful to the body etc. But the reason why I recommend against drinking coffee, is somewhat different. It is not so much about the caffein, but rather, drinking coffee comes with two undesirable consequences that may hinder your progress into gaining more weight.
First, coffee tends you make you bloated. After drinking a cup of coffee, you may notice that your appetite is affected in the sense that, you don't feel like eating. Yes you may be hungry, but the craving for food to solve the hunger isn't quite there. I personally don't think it is the caffein, but probably the milk and/or sugar that causes the problem. However, I have observed that this is not applicable to everybody. Some's appetite is generally more steadier than the others and remains unaffected.
Second, coffee tends to increase your metabolism rate. I have no scientific proof whatsoever, but I do notice how my heart rate is generally higher after I gulped down a cup of coffee, and how the food eaten gets digested faster. I am not sure if this is applicable to everybody, so you should pay some attention to see how your body reacts.
Coupling this two problems together, what happens is that... after drinking a cup of coffee, not only that you get hungry earlier than usual, you tend to eat later than usual due to the loss of appetite. As mentioned in my earlier article, it's undesirable for us skinny people to have an empty stomach because since we generally do not have much fats to burn, whenever there is a lack of energy, muscles are the first to go. This, as a result, would eat away all your hard earned muscles.
Don't over eat
I know, you are skinny right, you gotta eat more! That's what everybody says. But there is a physical limit to your stomach and it is a bad idea to push it to the extreme. Extra calories will definitely help, but not at the expense of the stomach. You can eat more, but if you are really really full, best is to stop. I have seen friends trying to hard to force down meals just for the extra calories. I am not sure if they end up getting gastric or not, but I am pretty sure all of them have stopped.
Note that if you overstressed your stomach and weakened it, it would affect the digestion and absorption of food... which basically makes it harder for you to gain weight instead. So please don't overdo it despite how impatient you are to a better body.
A better way to increase your food intake, is to eat slightly more every time, and stretch your stomach linings gently. Just that one extra bite more every time does wonder. This may be a slower progress, but it is definitely more consistent, and your appetite will stay with you for the rest of your life. After a meal, if you want to eat some more, eat a banana or something. Then maybe 2 bananas. Slowly, you will get comfortable enough to stay eating 1.5 meals or 2 full meals every time. :)
If you want a cheating way... I usually gulp a big cup of water down after a meal. It was never meant to be stretching my stomach, but to wash away all the tastes of the food I ate. What I observed however, is that it has probably stretched my stomach by quite a bit after doing this for years. Sometimes I could eat 2 main meals if I am really hungry.
Don't split up your meals
I have heard that some people recommend splitting up your meals into smaller chunks and eat more often for gaining weight. But I am also hearing the same thing for people who wants to lose some of their weights so this gets me really confused. So I decided to follow my natural instinct that is to eat 3 main meals a day and be done with it. I don't really snack in between.
My logic is simple, everyday, when consistently eating only 3 main meals, it is easy to gauge my own intake. You can slowly push for more food with every meal. Another thing is that, you will find yourself preferring food with more calories as you will not feel hungry as easily. And you will try to eat more to last till the next meal.
With snacking, you might just constantly be eating up rubbishes without observing how much energy each food has, since you would just eat whenever right?
Besides, in Chinese medicine, it is believed that lunch is the most important meal of the day (as opposed to breakfast in the Western beliefs). I can't remember the exact reasoning behind, something to do with either bodily functions are most active during the time of the day, or maybe just specifically your digestion. But what I can point out is that, as soon as I started taking lunch very seriously, my weight starts shooting up rather easily. After a large intake of food during lunch, I don't usually feel like more food until it's dinner time.
Don't drink protein drinks
Personally, I feel that protein is overrated. I mean seriously, do horses or cows take any protein drinks? They eat grass and they are huge and musclular! Why then do we humans required so much protein to increase our size? It makes no sense. I feel like it's just some marketing gimmicks.
Besides, don't you know that your body operates in a balanced manner. Ie, too much of something may hinder the absorption of some other nutrients, and if prolonged, could cause illness. Mr Universe may all look good on the outside, but god knows how healthy they are from the inside. If they are not healthy from the inside, then the body form that they adopt would only be temporary. I mean, a lot of them use steroids too to boost their muscles development, would that be a good assurance that you should follow the same path? My common sense says no to anything unnatural. So no to steroids, no to protein drinks.
Plus, have you heard about stories of how excessive proteins, when unused by the body would cause kidney stones? >.> I am not sure if that's true, but still something to be cautious with. I have increased my weight so far without any protein drinks... So can you.
Oh don't take me wrong. I am not saying that they don't work. In fact I did give them a try long long time ago and I gained a little bit of weight. 1 to 3 kg around there. I just feel that it's not natural to inject so much proteins into our body and feel that it may lead to unwanted damages if done in a long-term basis. So I stopped, and started pursuing a path that is more natural and sustainable. And the results is a 10kg gain so far. :)
Don't eat instant noodles
I used to think that instant noodles are god-sent! They are so tasty, so easy to cook, and with an egg, it would be a quick and easy meal. It was not until I went to study in Australia that I noticed, heck I am still shivering after filling up my stomach with 3 packs of instant noodles. How come?! It was like there was no energy in my stomach to be absorbed and converted into maintaining my body heat. That's when I suspected that, instant noodles probably carries little to none calories that are beneficial to our body.
More over, usually in the next morning, I would be having stomach ache problems, and it feels like a detoxification process to get rid of all the rubbish I ate the day before. Then when the stomach is agitated, you can guess it right that I don't eat as much that day.
Of course I don't think it would be that extreme to everybody, especially when you were not eating 3 packs of instant noodles at one shot and feel the combined effects of them all. But my point still stands that they probably contains little to none beneficial calories to our body. It may be okay to eat them as snacks, but never as main meals. You need real food!
Generally, I try to stay away from most processed food. That includes cereal, soft drinks, junk food, instant noodles, and all the other food that came out from a factory. Food in the most natural form, is easier to be digested, and contains better calories. Processed food in general, drains your body of energy to break them down into absorb-able energy, and the net-gain to your body would be greatly reduced. If you are curious about this theory, you should look up on the arguments raw foodists have against eating anything cooked, or processed. They have a lot of interesting (and logical) points.
As a conclusion...
You may notice that my approach is always aiming for the small steps in a sustainable way. Now we don't just want to gain weight, we want to keep it too! What's the use of forcing your weight up to say 80kg and have it going back down to 60kg the very moment you stop pushing right? The thing is that, at its most natural form, a body would neither be skinny or obese. That's how a healthy body should be like, just at the right size. Gaining weight for the skinny people is a lot about making sure that you are in the right health conditions too. When you body is balanced and in the right health conditions, any attempts to gain weight would create very fast results.
However, if your body is hardly healthy... Then you would probably need to spend a lot of time to work on your health condition first before any attempts start showing significant improvements. If that's the case for you, do more cardio exercises while slowly incorporating some weight lifting exercises into the routine.
Life After Hitting Rock Bottom
You know, I never truly understood life. At first, I thought having the guts to dream big and not willing to conform to others would lead to a great life. As a matter of fact, it led to much miseries. Then I thought, working hard is the path to great life. Actually maybe I didn't truly believe it, then I came across the Law of Attraction books, it resonates so much with me, I started looking elsewhere. But life in general, hasn't improved much. And with each day, my dreams continued to shatter into pieces without mercy.
Then came December 2009. It was a festive season and sales were slow due to a lot of holidays. Practically every friday in that month was a public holiday and public holidays affect my sales a great deal. I had a great month in November, best I had up to that point, yet I wasn't earning as much as I anticipated. So I really had high hopes that I could push it further in December. There, my hopes were melting as each day goes pass. Already being far as hell from my ultimate target, yet that month I was going backwards. It was really hard to swallow.
I was feeling so exhausted, so tired of my life. It feels like nothing is going according to plans There was so much resentment and resistance with what-is, I could hardly breath. I wasn't sure where I was going, but I know I wasn't happy feeling so stuck with life.
Then my birthday came, and shortly the new year came. Knowing that I wasn't going anywhere and that I am too tired fighting against the flow of life, I surrendered. For once, despite hating and detesting of joining the rat race, I started accepting the possibility of going into workforce if there is better for me. My aim for 2010 was simple and measurable. I want [an X amount] a month in salary. Something very basic for a working fresh graduate, but was immeasurably hard for me and my start-up business. Then something very strange happened.
You see towards the end of December 2009, instead of resentment against life, I slowly started accepting what-is. I was still making plans for my business and learning more about how to set achievable goals for myself, but at the same time I was on the look out for opportunities that would allow me to jump onto the [an X amount] bandwagon. :) I was really, willing to give up on my dreams if that's what it takes to get on with my life. I really didn't feel like I had any more energy to fight against life anymore.
On the first week of 2010, out of expection, the sales volume has already exceeded my best ever month in 2009. :O All happened in just one week instead of a month, and at the very first week at that! It all happened when I have actually decided that giving up isn't such a bad idea after all. That very moment, I stop trying to go upstream. I let go, and the flow of life started carrying me downstream. I gotta say that it feels GOOOD! It feels DAMN GOOD! To quote Jerry and Esther Hicks, "Nothing you ever wanted is upstream. "
It feels damn good to feel that life is finally being cooperative. It feels damn good to feel that I no longer have to fight for anything, or against anything to get what I want. But guess what? I still am willing to accept that perhaps one day, I might have to go into the workforce again, and I no longer hold any resistance towards that.
The Power of Now is accurate in pointing out that, when you finally are able to accept the what-is without any resistance, then miraculously, everything that you were resisting seems to be disappearing, with life being very cooperative out of a sudden.
I love this feeling! No wonder so many of them out there make it big only after they hit the rock bottom. I guess without going through the rock bottom, it's hard to achieve this kind of vibrational state. To be finally willing to give up control and just let life be.
The Life After... Life After Hitting Rock Bottom
The post above was actually written around 15th January 2010. What that is added below is written today, 16th March 2010.
2 months quickly went by after I last wrote the article and saved it as draft. My income has been steadily increasing since then, exactly matching with how I felt then... that life has been cooperative and helpful. I guess that shouldn't be a surprise as I wrote previously in an article, well-being is natural to us as long as we don't resist it. After surrendering innerly and dropping all the resistance I had against life, the life finally gets to flow again. :)
Lately, I got a part-time engineering/IT job. I am due to start next week. For everyday, 5 days a week, I will be working 3 hours in the morning, and I am free to go and work on my business in the afternoon. I have to be honest to you that, such a job is almost impossible to find in Malaysia, yet somehow it found me. Yes I was actually asked if I am interested in that job, instead of looking through classified ads to search for the best job.
I don't know about you, but life has really been so nice to me starting this year, I feel so awesomely blessed. But I understand that this is all part of the "let life flows through you and offers no resistance" thingie, and I am constantly making sure that no resistance is there within me.
I truly believe that if life is not working for you, you can make it work just like how I do. Surrender now and go with the flow. How? I think I might have to write another article on that. :P